WEARING A THONG AT EIGHT ..HAVING GROUP SEX AT 14

[Mufumonk]

WEARING A THONG AT EIGHT ..HAVING GROUP SEX AT 14
KIDS PAY PRICE OF OUR SEXUAL SOCIETY
(http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/tm_objectid=15452215&method=full&siteid=94762&headline=wearing-a-thong-at-eight---having-group-sex-at-14-name_page.html)

Suzie Hayman
From eight-year-olds in hotpants to teenage orgies, the sexualisation of our children is alarming.

Where school nurses used to check for nits, 90 per cent now deal with sexual diseases.

Yesterday the Royal College of Nursing warned of a new phenomenon, "daisy chaining", youngsters having group sex.

Here agony aunt and expert counsellor SUZIE HAYMAN warns of the dangers of the sexualisation of our kids. KIDS have always played doctors and nurses. Children exploring their sexuality is perfectly normal.


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But now they are rushing to have full sex at an increasingly young age.


It has never been unusual for 13 and 14-year-olds at a party to pair off in a corner.


But if they are going a step further and teens are swinging or daisy chaining it shows an absolute disregard for safe sex, themselves and the other people.


It's a recipe for pregnancy, sexual diseases and a generation growing up emotionally warped.


Children are becoming increasingly sexualised - and it is thanks to magazines, TV and our consumer society.


People are making money out of selling adulthood to children and with it adult behaviour.


In the past girls might have dressed up in mum's clothes, perfume and make-up for fun at home. But now children of eight or nine are going out in provocative clothes that have been bought for them, and they do not realise what signals they are sending out - the message that they are sexual beings.


Young girls do not realise that when their trousers slip to show they are wearing a thong they are saying "I'm sexy" as well as "I'm fashionable." And a 10-year-old should not be sexy.


SOME of the blame has to be with the parents who bought the thongs or a padded bra for an eight-year-old.


What is most worrying is now youngsters are also aping the flirtatious behaviour they see on TV. Many of the pop and dance music videos show the kind of action that would have been in a porn film 20 years ago.


Take Britney Spears. She was sending out very confusing messages when she first appeared, claiming to be a virgin and making videos that were extraordinarily sexual.


Early sexual exploration is usually experimentation - and that is normal. As kids get to the stage where they're interested in intercourse it tends to go with emotional feelings - in other words they fall in love, even at an early age.


If there are a lot of young people having full sex without any feeling involved, we could be breeding a generation of kids who are emotionally traumatised - and that is exceptionally sad.


And if the daisy chaining or group teenage sex is taking place clearly this is partic -larly worrying in relation to sexual infection. Thebig problem in this country is teenagers are unlikely to use protection the first time they have sex.


They have not heard about it, think it is something committed partners do or find it difficult to get hold of condoms. You have to brave the chemist's counter or go to a public lavatory and use a machine hoping no one sees, or go to a clinic.


In other countries the attitude is different. For example in the Netherlands the teen culture teaches you are mad not to use contraception.


More sex goes hand-in-hand with the increased availability of drink and drugs. In the last 20 years there's been an increase in the amount and strength of the substances young people use.


If you are out of your face, you are much more likely to get carried away. There is a clear link between teenagers, sex, drink and drugs.


But as for youngsters having more sex or group sex it is easy to point the finger of blame at inadequate sexual education in our schools.


We are still dealing with the moralistic idea we only discuss sex within marriage and no other way. That leaves kids vulnerable.


They need to know about what they want to do with their boyfriend or girlfriend.


If a daisy chaining session starts and one of the group does not want to be there, with peer pressure and the ignorance bred by our sex education classes what are the chances of them being able to say no?


There is more anti-social behaviour on our streets. The Daily Mirror is among those trying to do something positive to combat this with its Reclaim Our Streets campaign.


Those kids causing the problems often come from troubled backgrounds where they have seen sex and love split apart.


Young people who behave without sympathy for others are doing so because they had little sympathy shown to them.


If teenagers are having group sex it is another indication our young people are in crisis.


It is heart-breaking when youngsters feel so uncaring for themselves that they cannot care for other people.


In my experience even adults who swing are frequently expressing an inability to commit or come out of it feeling rejected by their partner.


With most couples I see who swing one is happy and the other is doing it for their partner.


A majority of young people who have early sex say they wish they had waited because it did not mean much, they caught infections or got pregnant.


Just as significant is how it affects their emotional life. If they place an importance on this and the whole thing falls apart they have had a really sad experience at a very young age - perhaps in a situation where they cannot talk to someone about it.


It is hard for a 13-year-old girl to say to her mum "my boyfriend just dumped me after I slept with him". But the emotional battering and trauma that child has gone through is terrible and will leave mental scars if she cannot.

[jazz]

everyday i lose more and more interest in having offspring.

[Mufumonk]

everyday i lose more and more interest in having offspring.

Things like this really do make me have second thoughts on having kids. It's pretty sad that things have gotten so bad in the last 10 years.

[EtchedInCold]

no little jazz0rs running around?

then I'll have to step up the little Robs

[EtchedInCold]

Things like this really do make me have second thoughts on having kids. It's pretty sad that things have gotten so bad in the last 10 years.
fuck, i grew up in this shit.

[Pudie]

Jesus. At this rate my child will be a slut in the womb.

[jazz]

Things like this really do make me have second thoughts on having kids. It's pretty sad that things have gotten so bad in the last 10 years.

even my wife who LOVES kids is having doubts. that speaks volumes about where we're headed.

[KenKill75]

Im gonna have hordes of kids just to fuck with the world :wookie:

[EtchedInCold]

you and me both, Ken.

[Bruce]

I don't plan on having children so much as having wards of the state.

[KenKill75]

I almost had 2 kids. Both miscarried. :uhhh:

[jazz]

you and me both, Ken.

who's gonna carry it? :what:

[KenKill75]

Ryan will be the surrogate

[jazz]

which ryan? :ryan: or judas? :what:

i think we should force MAGO into carrying it when he gets back.

[KenKill75]

I didnt know Judas' name was Ryan. I meant the NIN Ryan. I dunno about Mago...Im afraid what the kid might look like after he carries it for 9 months :eek2:

[jazz]

I didnt know Judas' name was Ryan. I meant the NIN Ryan. I dunno about Mago...Im afraid what the kid might look like after he carries it for 9 months :eek2:

it would probably look like this (http://las-vegas.travelnice.com/dbi/CarrotTop2-225x300.jpg)

:barf:

[KenKill75]

:jaw: :ontome:

[jazz]

:ontome:

i love how this guy just zips by when viewed in firefox.

[paygee]

:ontome:

i love how this guy just zips by when viewed in firefox.
ha, yea that is hilarious

[Mufumonk]

it would probably look like this (http://las-vegas.travelnice.com/dbi/CarrotTop2-225x300.jpg)

:barf:


Or this:

http://cdn-channels.netscape.com/gallery/i/p/popular042605/apohcomrr_VIETNAM_30TH_A_14.jpg

[jazz]

poor MAGO. :nanner9:

[KenKill75]

Lets drink to Mago :cheers:

[jazz]

let's do lines in honor of him. i'm calling up a hooker right now.

:nana:

[Tzarina]

In the past girls might have dressed up in mum's clothes, perfume and make-up for fun at home. But now children of eight or nine are going out in provocative clothes that have been bought for them, and they do not realise what signals they are sending out - the message that they are sexual beings.


Young girls do not realise that when their trousers slip to show they are wearing a thong they are saying "I'm sexy" as well as "I'm fashionable." And a 10-year-old should not be sexy.
A-fucking-men to that!
:barf:


SOME of the blame has to be with the parents who bought the thongs or a padded bra for an eight-year-old.
Some? :hmmm:

And if the daisy chaining or group teenage sex is taking place clearly this is partic -larly worrying in relation to sexual infection. Thebig problem in this country is teenagers are unlikely to use protection the first time they have sex.

They have not heard about it, think it is something committed partners do or find it difficult to get hold of condoms. You have to brave the chemist's counter or go to a public lavatory and use a machine hoping no one sees, or go to a clinic.
EEP! If you are too embarrassed to buy the rubber, you are WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY too immature to have sex... :bash:


A majority of young people who have early sex say they wish they had waited because it did not mean much

Too true... :nod: :frown:

[Heath]

The world is going to complete shit. I'm 15 and I didn't even know anyone who had done that when they were 10...wow. Sex at 14 yeah, but not group sex .

They should at least legalize pot so everyone is more mellow, even if it's still fucked.

[paygee]

yea, i couldnt imagine being sexually active and then going home and playing with barbies...

[Hailo]

I have a 13 yr old Sister, Scary. :shame:

[paygee]

you better teach her about sex yourself, because clearly this is what happens when public schools do it for you.

[Hailo]

you better teach her about sex yourself, because clearly this is what happens when public schools do it for you.

:lmao: Yeah i plan on it, she's been boy crazy for the past year. So i guess it's about time.

[paygee]

:lmao: Yeah i plan on it, she's been boy crazy for the past year. So i guess it's about time.
id say so

[Tzarina]

yea, i couldnt imagine being sexually active and then going home and playing with barbies...
:that:
Course I never played with dolls of any kind... but still :roflmao:


:lmao:

[Agent]

i'd do a 15 yr old.

cassie steele style.

[... Scott]

England just dosn,t change I was having sex in the local park aged 14 I didn,t see the big deal then ...


But I do now I have children of my own


I wonder if I can lock them on an island somwhere until they are 18 :spin:

[Nostawen]

Here, most part of the poor people has 2 or 3 children by 14. But, yes, people in general tend to get in contact with sex at a younger age (which was not my case, I have to say). I have a 11 year old bro and I´m already starting to freak out.

[Godless]

It is sad to see kids having sex like that and a lot of kids are stupid, ignorant or generally uncaring. But I have to say, this artical was about 90% opinion, no statistics (well, hardly), no studies, I'm not too worried.



This is from the UK anyways....no wonder they used the term "daisy chaining"

[iha]

:ontome:

i love how this guy just zips by when viewed in firefox.

wow.. i just looked at it on IE for the first time. that's weird that it is different for different browsers.

[paygee]

Here, most part of the poor people has 2 or 3 children by 14. But, yes, people in general tend to get in contact with sex at a younger age (which was not my case, I have to say). I have a 11 year old bro and I´m already starting to freak out.
i would say for the most part ignorant people have 3-4 kids, not just "poor" people

[Mufumonk]

i would say for the most part ignorant people have 3-4 kids, not just "poor" people


That, or they end up poor because they've popped out 3 kids and can't afford them.

[paygee]

true

[Tzarina]

i would say for the most part ignorant people have 3-4 kids, not just "poor" people
and you would be correct... studies have reported, pretty consistantly, that level of education plays an important role in number and age for birth of children... :nod: As well as smoking and obesity :rip:

[Hailo]

So, what your saying is if your family was three or more then your parents are ignorant?

Well I have five other siblings. And i'd like to say My Dad's brother has 13 kids. So your saying their ignorant, because they have more than three kids?
Just need to clarify this... You know in case I feel I need to take up for my very large Family.

[dionysusolympus]

So, what your saying is if your family was three or more then your parents are ignorant?

Right?

Well I have five other siblings. And i'd like to say My Dad's brother has 13 kids. So your saying their ignorant, because they have more than three kids?

yep, the whole lot of you! i think we should put you on Survivor and fight it out... :insecure: :what:

[Tzarina]

So, what your saying is if your family was three or more then your parents are ignorant?

Well I have five other siblings. And i'd like to say My Dad's brother has 13 kids. So your saying their ignorant, because they have more than three kids?
Just need to clarify this... You know in case I feel I need to take up for my very large Family.
No... You know these things are not 100%... Look at the Latter Day Saints... wealthy, high levels of education, but 8 to 10 kids a family...
When it comes to larger numbers younger, the trend is for lower educated/less income families to have more kids...

I don't think Paige meant it that way either ...

:beat:

[Hailo]

yep, the whole lot of you! i think we should put you on Survivor and fight it out... :insecure: :what:
I'd just like to say that Your all fucked in the head. I love being from a large family and none of my family is strapped for cash or ignorant. And I'd like to say a big Fuck You to Dionysusolympus! Oh and :stfu:

[dionysusolympus]

I'd just like to say that Your all fucked in the head. I love being from a large family and none of my family is strapped for cash or ignorant. And I'd like to say a big Fuck You to Dionysusolympus! Oh and :stfu:

:agree:

[Tzarina]

I'd just like to say that Your all fucked in the head, I love being from a large family and none of my family is strapped for cash or ignorant. And I'd like to say a big Fuck You to Dionysusolympus! Oh and :stfu:
you spelled his screen name correctly :what: I've never seen anyone do that... which is odd... considering dionysus and olympus... :lol:

[jazz]

I'd just like to say that Your all fucked in the head. I love being from a large family and none of my family is strapped for cash or ignorant. And I'd like to say a big Fuck You to Dionysusolympus! Oh and :stfu:

whoah, whoah, whoah, calm down. dio was trying to lighten the mood with humor.

[Hailo]

No... You know these things are not 100%... Look at the Latter Day Saints... wealthy, high levels of education, but 8 to 10 kids a family...
When it comes to larger numbers younger, the trend is for lower educated/less income families to have more kids...

I don't think Paige meant it that way either ...

:beat:

I'd like to say Fuck the STATS!
I think whoever wrote that fucked article was basing it on a few fucked little tramatized individuals. :shrug: makes for a good story. Why not, right?

[Hailo]

whoah, whoah, whoah, calm down. dio was trying to lighten the mood with humor.

I'm calm, no worry's.

[greg]

:tits:

[Hailo]

What are you 14? :ontome:

[dionysusolympus]

What are you 14? :ontome:

mentally, yes. :nanner6: :pirate2: :what:

[paygee]

So, what your saying is if your family was three or more then your parents are ignorant?

Well I have five other siblings. And i'd like to say My Dad's brother has 13 kids. So your saying their ignorant, because they have more than three kids?
Just need to clarify this... You know in case I feel I need to take up for my very large Family.
in this day and age you would have to be a complete fool to bring that many children into this screwed up world...

not a personal attack on you hailo. :beat:

[Godless]

I'd like to say Fuck the STATS!
I think whoever wrote that fucked article was basing it on a few fucked little tramatized individuals. :shrug: makes for a good story. Why not, right?
That's what I'm thinking too. Bunch-of-booshit article.

[greg]

What are you 14? :ontome:
almost....

[Godless]

in this day and age you would have to be a complete fool to bring that many children into this screwed up world...

not a personal attack on you hailo. :beat:
His/her parents must be Mesican :pepper:

[Pun'KinG']

you and me both, Ken.

Agent?

:noid:

[paygee]

His/her parents must be Mesican :pepper:
thats not nice :uhuh:

[greg]

neither is this:

http://www.botanica.no/le/im7/Thong.jpg

[paygee]

thats not mean, thats just gross

[greg]

its definitely not nice, though

[Godless]

thats not nice :uhuh:
hey I'm Mexican....and it's true! Mexicans have way too many kids.

[paygee]

most people on this planet have way too many kids

[Godless]

thats not mean, thats just gross
gross and hypnotic

[Godless]

most people on this planet have way too many kids
look at it this way...at lot of them are Catholic and don't "believe" in contraception

glad that's not my family

[paygee]

one thing they do believe in, over-population

[jazz]

most people on this planet have way too many kids

that's been my complaint ever since i was a kid.

[Godless]

I don't know if I could raise a kid in this fucked up state/country/world. I don't think I'd want to do that to a person...

[jazz]

I don't know if I could raise a kid in this fucked up state/country/world. I don't think I'd want to do that to a person...

i give my parents the guilt trip every once in a while.

[Godless]

I'm glad my (ex?)-girlfriend got her period yesterday....what a load off my mind.

[jazz]

I'm glad my (ex?)-girlfriend got her period yesterday....what a load off my mind.

we've had a couple of scares already. believe me, my gaming career was flashing before my eyes.

[paygee]

ha

[jazz]

it turned out that she got so nervous, it was delaying her from getting her period. :rolleyes:

both times.

[Godless]

we've had a couple of scares already. believe me, my gaming career was flashing before my eyes.
We had a couple scares as well.....oy....I don't think I can handle that anymore.

[Godless]

it turned out that she got so nervous, it was delaying her from getting her period. :rolleyes:

both times.
For Christ's sake, eh?

Let me guess....you did this..... :nanner6: ....when you found out

[jazz]

i'm a beast at pulling out though. :what:

i have to be. birth control pills make her sick and i refuse to use condoms. :thehand: it's my wife for christ's sake.

[jazz]

For Christ's sake, eh?

Let me guess....you did this..... :nanner6: ....when you found out
i smoked a fat bowl and played a video game.

[Godless]

What's wrong with condoms? We've gone without before, when she had a Depo-Prevera shot which was a MISTAKE. Condoms aren't bad. Well, Trojans suck, but LifeStyles really do feel almost like wearing nothing at all.

Never again will I go without a condom, even though she's been on the patch.

[Tzarina]

That's what I'm thinking too. Bunch-of-booshit article.
I am not talking about articles, I am talking about Sociological research, and yes... there is a positive, relatively strong correlation between income group/education/smoking/obesity/& larger children amounts in families :shrug:


:rasta:

[jazz]

What's wrong with condoms?
i don't wanna suffocate my dick for one.

[Godless]

I am not talking about articles, I am talking about Sociological research, and yes... there is a positive, relatively strong correlation between income group/education/smoking/obesity/& larger children amounts in families :shrug:

:rasta:
I thought Hailo was talking about the original article. Not sure anymore...

[Hailo]

in this day and age you would have to be a complete fool to bring that many children into this screwed up world...

not a personal attack on you hailo. :beat:
Thats your opinion, and personally I wouldn't have that many Kids, either. But having come from a large family I see nothing wrong with it. If you can afford it and are mentally capable of handling it. I agree most people can't handle it or afford it. All I'm saying is that the stats aren't always true.
Oh and yes our world is fucked. :wink:

[paygee]

Thats your opinion, and personally I wouldn't have that many Kids, either. But having come from a large family I see nothing wrong with it. If you can afford it and are mentally capable of handling it. I agree most people can't handle it or afford it. All I'm saying is that the stats aren't always true.
Oh and yes our world is fucked. :wink:
it is not my opinion that this world is too fucked to want to bring that many children into the world, sorry thats a fact

[Hailo]

His/her parents must be Mesican :pepper:
And again, your wrong. :neener:

[Hailo]

look at it this way...at lot of them are Catholic and don't "believe" in contraception

glad that's not my family

:shame: nope

[paygee]

:shame: nope
nope what?


no one here is personally attacking your family hailo. please dont take it that way

[Hailo]

it is not my opinion that this world is too fucked to want to bring that many children into the world, sorry thats a fact

Nice opinion

[paygee]

defensive much?

[Godless]

And again, your wrong. :neener:
Haha I was just messin' anyways. :captnan:

[Hailo]

nope what?


no one here is personally attacking your family hailo. please dont take it that way


We aren't Catholic either. I was just thinking that you all keep trying to put my family into a certain Group. I was just saying nope, wrong again. But whatever, Oh and I don't think your attacking my family. Honestly I've had this conversation many times, so it's no biggy. Most people think all of the above.

Basically were mexicans trying to live off the government by having to many kids. Oh and our reason we can't stop is we're Catholic. :lmao: Not to mention we're ignorant , overfed, and just wrong for bring that many kids into the world. What a travisty. :eek:

[paygee]

We aren't Catholic either. I was just thinking that you all keep trying to put my family into a certain Group. I was just saying nope, wrong again. But whatever, Oh and I don't think your attacking my family. Honestly I've had this conversation many times, so it's no biggy. Most people think all of the above.

Basically were mexicans trying to live off the government by having to many kids. Oh and our reason we can't stop is we're Catholic. :lmao: Not to mention we're ignorant , overfed, and just wrong for bring that many kids into the world. What a travisty. :eek:
and like ive said twice now, no one here was personally attacking you, so no need to be so devensive about the subject.


:beat:?

[jazz]

one show that espouses having lots of kids is seventh heaven. the producers of that show should die.

[Hailo]

and like ive said twice now, no one here was personally attacking you, so no need to be so devensive about the subject.

And like I said before, I'm not. :wink:

[paygee]

And like I said before, I'm not.
if you say so



and jazz, dont lie that is your favorite show....you have the dvd..

[jazz]

and jazz, dont lie that is your favorite show....you have the dvd..

shhh :insecure:

[paygee]

:shh:

[Hailo]

if you say so :beat:

I do, :beat:.

[B]

group sex at 14, nothing wrong with that, as long as thered be plenty of rubbers goin' round.

[paygee]

group sex at 14, nothing wrong with that, as long as thered be plenty of rubbers goin' round.
:hmm:

if there were plenty of rubbers goin round, this wouldnt be such a huge issue...

[B]

then kids need sex education earlier - im thinkin kindergarten.

[Godless]

:hmm:

if there were plenty of rubbers goin round, this wouldnt be such a huge issue...
I think you really like that smiley

[Hailo]

:agree:

[jazz]

then kids need sex education earlier - im thinkin kindergarten.

maybe parents should start reading books on sex eduation while the kid's in the womb.

[B]

adult movies @ 1 year, after eyesight develops :nod:

[jazz]

adult movies @ 1 year, after eyesight develops :nod:

sounds feasible.

[B]

a lesson on child molestation at four
:ontome:

[Godless]

I should start sharing porn on my server for those who would like to teach their youngins

[jazz]

I should start sharing porn on my server for those who would like to teach their youngins

nice way to slip that in there, godless. very slick. :brows:

[Godless]

nice way to slip that in there, godless. very slick. :brows:
gotta give 'em what they want, right?

[B]

:nod:

[paygee]

I think you really like that smiley
i do :bravo:

[jazz]

:bravo:

that one hauls ass in ff too.

[paygee]

ha

[KenKill75]

:hump2:

[Godless]

that one hauls ass in ff too.
ff?

[KenKill75]

ff = Firefox

[Ellen Degenerate]

I am 15 and I am proud to not be involved in sex yet :smile:

[Godless]

sex=paranoia

[Nostawen]

then kids need sex education earlier - im thinkin kindergarten.
You made me thought of that South Park episode, when they teach sexual positions on kindergarten. And when the kids go to the pharmacy to buy rubbers, and then Cartman has to change it when he pisses on it.

[Nostawen]

sex=paranoia
That´s a strange truth. I was so careless when I was a virgin...

[Tzarina]

You made me thought of that South Park episode, when they teach sexual positions on kindergarten. And when the kids go to the pharmacy to buy rubbers, and then Cartman has to change it when he pisses on it.
and they end up having the war of the sexes cause the girls think if guys touch them they contract diseases...
Oh :shit: THAT was funny...

<-- and I figure all these bats are only one or two and they look happy... :haha:

[dirty clown]

I think it's funny how our minds cause us to go against nature...

It's like Al Pacino said in The Devil's Advocate: "God gives man the greatest gift he can give any being- INSTINCTS. And then for his own amusement, for his own cosmic gag reel, he sets the rules in opposition."

Humans were originally genetically designed to only live to be about forty, which is why around that age our bodies start to deteriorate while we continue to exist...so naturally our reproductive organs would have to kick in a couple of decades early so we'd have plenty of time to keep the species going. This was back before our brains got so big that we started to wonder why innocent little children should be exposed to something so horrible and gross as sex. Anyway, fourteen was a fine age to start reproducing at...that's why our bodies tell us that it's time to start reproducing as soon as we can jizz or have breasts. In some cultures they still practice this, in fact. Marriage at fourteen and such.

But, yet another product of big brains and too-many-goddamn-people-around, group sex and shit isn't necessary. In my opinion, the first sign of overpopulation is when sex becomes trivial, and is seen as a pleasure-source rather than a way of keeping the species going. Now it's a big joke.

I'm not saying fourteen year old should have group sex or kids should even be thinking about that stuff until they're 18 or so- we're past that, we've evolved- I'm just saying that it's kind of funny how our instincts and mindsets are constantly clashing.

It's evolution, baby, and we're right in the middle of it. :pepper:

[Ryan]

what next? deepthroating at three and getting anal creampies as an embryo?

[dirty clown]

It's probably already happening and we just don't know it.

[Trizzak]

I love it when you talk dirty

[Tzarina]

what the fuck are creampies Ryan?
:roflmao:


I wear a thong :yawn:

[dirty clown]

Heh heh.

[Tzarina]

i'm just sayin' nothing wrong with nipping that nasty to see panty line issue in the bum at a young age :haha:

[Ryan]

what the fuck are creampies Ryan?
:roflmao:


I wear a thong :yawn:

cummage in vagina/anus :insecure:

[Ryan]

It's probably already happening and we just don't know it.

most likely :no:

[Ryan]

I love it when you talk dirty

i know :smile:

[Tzarina]

cummage in vagina/anus :insecure:
:hungry:

[Ryan]

:shame:

:ontome:

[Tzarina]

:blink:

[jims]

WEARING A THONG AT EIGHT ..HAVING GROUP SEX AT 14
KIDS PAY PRICE OF OUR SEXUAL SOCIETY
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Suzie Hayman
From eight-year-olds in hotpants to teenage orgies, the sexualisation of our children is alarming.

Where school nurses used to check for nits, 90 per cent now deal with sexual diseases.

Yesterday the Royal College of Nursing warned of a new phenomenon, "daisy chaining", youngsters having group sex.

Here agony aunt and expert counsellor SUZIE HAYMAN warns of the dangers of the sexualisation of our kids. KIDS have always played doctors and nurses. Children exploring their sexuality is perfectly normal.


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But now they are rushing to have full sex at an increasingly young age.


It has never been unusual for 13 and 14-year-olds at a party to pair off in a corner.


But if they are going a step further and teens are swinging or daisy chaining it shows an absolute disregard for safe sex, themselves and the other people.


It's a recipe for pregnancy, sexual diseases and a generation growing up emotionally warped.


Children are becoming increasingly sexualised - and it is thanks to magazines, TV and our consumer society.


People are making money out of selling adulthood to children and with it adult behaviour.


In the past girls might have dressed up in mum's clothes, perfume and make-up for fun at home. But now children of eight or nine are going out in provocative clothes that have been bought for them, and they do not realise what signals they are sending out - the message that they are sexual beings.


Young girls do not realise that when their trousers slip to show they are wearing a thong they are saying "I'm sexy" as well as "I'm fashionable." And a 10-year-old should not be sexy.


SOME of the blame has to be with the parents who bought the thongs or a padded bra for an eight-year-old.


What is most worrying is now youngsters are also aping the flirtatious behaviour they see on TV. Many of the pop and dance music videos show the kind of action that would have been in a porn film 20 years ago.


Take Britney Spears. She was sending out very confusing messages when she first appeared, claiming to be a virgin and making videos that were extraordinarily sexual.


Early sexual exploration is usually experimentation - and that is normal. As kids get to the stage where they're interested in intercourse it tends to go with emotional feelings - in other words they fall in love, even at an early age.


If there are a lot of young people having full sex without any feeling involved, we could be breeding a generation of kids who are emotionally traumatised - and that is exceptionally sad.


And if the daisy chaining or group teenage sex is taking place clearly this is partic -larly worrying in relation to sexual infection. Thebig problem in this country is teenagers are unlikely to use protection the first time they have sex.


They have not heard about it, think it is something committed partners do or find it difficult to get hold of condoms. You have to brave the chemist's counter or go to a public lavatory and use a machine hoping no one sees, or go to a clinic.


In other countries the attitude is different. For example in the Netherlands the teen culture teaches you are mad not to use contraception.


More sex goes hand-in-hand with the increased availability of drink and drugs. In the last 20 years there's been an increase in the amount and strength of the substances young people use.


If you are out of your face, you are much more likely to get carried away. There is a clear link between teenagers, sex, drink and drugs.


But as for youngsters having more sex or group sex it is easy to point the finger of blame at inadequate sexual education in our schools.


We are still dealing with the moralistic idea we only discuss sex within marriage and no other way. That leaves kids vulnerable.


They need to know about what they want to do with their boyfriend or girlfriend.


If a daisy chaining session starts and one of the group does not want to be there, with peer pressure and the ignorance bred by our sex education classes what are the chances of them being able to say no?


There is more anti-social behaviour on our streets. The Daily Mirror is among those trying to do something positive to combat this with its Reclaim Our Streets campaign.


Those kids causing the problems often come from troubled backgrounds where they have seen sex and love split apart.


Young people who behave without sympathy for others are doing so because they had little sympathy shown to them.


If teenagers are having group sex it is another indication our young people are in crisis.


It is heart-breaking when youngsters feel so uncaring for themselves that they cannot care for other people.


In my experience even adults who swing are frequently expressing an inability to commit or come out of it feeling rejected by their partner.


With most couples I see who swing one is happy and the other is doing it for their partner.


A majority of young people who have early sex say they wish they had waited because it did not mean much, they caught infections or got pregnant.


Just as significant is how it affects their emotional life. If they place an importance on this and the whole thing falls apart they have had a really sad experience at a very young age - perhaps in a situation where they cannot talk to someone about it.


It is hard for a 13-year-old girl to say to her mum "my boyfriend just dumped me after I slept with him". But the emotional battering and trauma that child has gone through is terrible and will leave mental scars if she cannot.

blame tv, hollywood and media and such fucks.

[Mufumonk]

I wear a thong :yawn:

Me too. :brows:

[jazz]

blame tv, hollywood and media and such fucks.

yeah, you could place some of the blame on these assholes, but the ultimate responsibility should always rest with the parent(s).

[KenKill75]

As always, I blame the Democrats :owndance:

[Bruce]

I blame the Amish and the Mennonites.

[Mufumonk]

yeah, you could place some of the blame on these assholes, but the ultimate responsibility should always rest with the parent(s).

I think alot of it does have to do with television and marketing. Look at what is being passed off on T.V. as "reality". Shows like Temptation Island, Blind Date, The Fifth Wheel and the lot are hardly realistic, but kids don't know any better. Granted, their parents shouldn't be letting them watch this garbage, but kids are going to find ways around that. It's very sad how far our standards have fallen in the last 10 years. I thought we had sunk as far as we could with Jerry Springer but that's hardly the case.

[Godless]

I think alot of it does have to do with television and marketing. Look at what is being passed off on T.V. as "reality". Shows like Temptation Island, Blind Date, The Fifth Wheel and the lot are hardly realistic, but kids don't know any better. Granted, their parents shouldn't be letting them watch this garbage, but kids are going to find ways around that. It's very sad how far our standards have fallen in the last 10 years. I thought we had sunk as far as we could with Jerry Springer but that's hardly the case.
yeah, fuck that shit

[Tzarina]

Me too. :brows:
:pics: please :biggrin:

[Mufumonk]

:pics: please :biggrin:


http://viral.lycos.co.uk/attachments/2907/new_speedos.jpg

[Godless]

my eyes, my eyes!!

[Tzarina]

OMG... Godless, you can get one of those! :what: Says they are avialable in CA...

:pics: please...

:haha:

[Godless]

does that mean I have to shave my ass? :what:

[Joga]

I blame the Amish and the Mennonites.

Yeah, all their fancy technology...and you should see what those young Amish girls do with a butter churn...

[paygee]

Yeah, all their fancy technology...and you should see what those young Amish girls do with a butter churn...
not to mention they go around all day showing off their ankles, its disgusting....

[Tzarina]

^^did you guys see that Amish in the city show? :spin:

does that mean I have to shave my ass? :what:

:lmao: No, you gotta wax it :what: and your back as well... :haha:

[Joga]

^^did you guys see that Amish in the city show?

Yep... none of the kids went back to the Amish after their Rumspringa. Sad. Even that scary guy who made all of those wooden toys.

[Tzarina]

Yep... none of the kids went back to the Amish after their Rumspringa. Sad. Even that scary guy who made all of those wooden toys.
are you serious? :what: I thought he'd return for sure... wow... I know the Rumspringa used to be so that the kids would value their homes more when they returned, and the honesty and humbleness of their society... It IS sad that so few are now returning, I understand why... but sad nonetheless... :nanasad:
And the fact they were even ABLE to choose a path that leads to ostrazation from the familys... I mean think, you decide to go to college and be a research doctor, and your family pretty much disowns you... now THAT is harsh...

[Trizzak]

Yeah, all their fancy technology...and you should see what those young Amish girls do with a butter churn...
:drool:

[B]

post pics :drool:

[jazz]

hi guest :wave: perv

hey, does anyone know why mufu left? :uhh:

[KenKill75]

Mufu = Modus

[jazz]

:shrug:

did he ever announce his name change?

[KenKill75]

From what I remember the original story was that mufu was leaving and his brother modus was joining. But most of us didn't bewiive that and thought they were one in the same. :shrug:

[jazz]

ohhhhhhhhh yeah. thanks for jogging my memory. now i recall. :imfast:

[KenKill75]

That's what i'm here for. :shake:

[jazz]

you're here for the free :coffee: and :jerk3:offs

:thehand:

[Bruce]

I'm actually Mya. :blush:

[KenKill75]

Actually, I think it's the coffee which gave me the shits today. :nanner9:

[jazz]

i was gonna bump the "sitting on the toilet using the wireless" thread earlier, but it was quick this time.

[Da Rafsta]

Jesus. At this rate my child will be a slut in the womb.
LMFAO!!! :lmao: