LOVE?

[theSNAIL]

What is it with love. do you guys believe in it or think its crap. I myself have been in love once. but it is a sensitive subject. anyone got any love stories they wanna share.....

me first.....


i was in love with my girlfriend of 3 years. she was and is my everything. but then i caught her cheating on me and i guess that was it. ever since then i told myself. "FUCK IT. i dont need love." its pointless and brings nothing but pain and hurt. i never want to fall in love again and i never will. i know not everyone is like this but i am and i dont care. my parents are the same. they were in love and now look, theyre devored and my dad is a druggie cause he cheated on my mother, and my mom is a bitter old whore. LOVE IS HORRIBLE THING THAT RUINS EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE IT TOUCHES!


but then again thats what i think.

anyone else care to share with the class?

[B]

well, I've gotta take a little time, a little time to think things over. I better read between the lines in case I need it when I'm older, and now this mountain I must climb. It feels like the world upon my shoulders. Through the clouds I see love shine. It keeps me warm as life grows colder. In my life there's been heartache and pain. I don't know if I can face it again, I can't stop now, I've travelled so far to change this lonely life. I want to know what love is, I want you to show me. I want to feel what love is, I know you can show me. :owndance:

[Ryan]

love is awesome :beat:

[B]

stfu

[Ryan]

no

[B]

go <3 your bitches elsewhere K THNX!

[Ryan]

stfu

[Ryan]

go <3 your bitches elsewhere K THNX!

brittany (love ryan <3) says:
tell him you just got sex


:neener:


:sarcasm:

[B]

msn sex doesnt count. :ha: :owned:

[Ryan]

'twas the phone, a-hole

[B]

I <3 ryans asshole

[Ryan]

:beat: :beat:

[B]

ive stunk up this thread. ill refrain from the further shitteying of this thread.

[theSNAIL]

wtf

[B]

ryan hijacked the thread. blame him. :ryan:

[Ryan]

LET'S START OVER:

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LOVE?

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

What is it with love. do you guys believe in it or think its crap. I myself have been in love once. but it is a sensitive subject. anyone got any love stories they wanna share.....

me first.....


i was in love with my girlfriend of 3 years. she was and is my everything. but then i caught her cheating on me and i guess that was it. ever since then i told myself. "FUCK IT. i dont need love." its pointless and brings nothing but pain and hurt. i never want to fall in love again and i never will. i know not everyone is like this but i am and i dont care. my parents are the same. they were in love and now look, theyre devored and my dad is a druggie cause he cheated on my mother, and my mom is a bitter old whore. LOVE IS HORRIBLE THING THAT RUINS EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE IT TOUCHES!


but then again thats what i think.

anyone else care to share with the class?

[Ryan]

love is awesome :beat:

[B]

well, I've gotta take a little time, a little time to think things over. I better read between the lines in case I need it when I'm older, and now this mountain I must climb. It feels like the world upon my shoulders. Through the clouds I see love shine. It keeps me warm as life grows colder. In my life there's been heartache and pain. I don't know if I can face it again, I can't stop now, I've travelled so far to change this lonely life. I want to know what love is, I want you to show me. I want to feel what love is, I know you can show me. :beat:

[Ryan]

<33333

[B]

stfu

[Ryan]

k

[B]

:beat:

[jims]

that word should be banned from this board :smile:

[Trizzak]

:laughing: This thread is great.

[Bruce]

"Love" is just something people created to sell literature, music, movies, etc., etc., etc.

Whores and antibiotics. That's all you need in life.

[jazz]

Whores and antibiotics. That's all you need in life.

:lmao:

i'm planning on getting that tattooed.

[Hailo]

Love is what you make it

[EtchedInCold]

Is it so hard to believe our hearts Are made to be broken by love
That in constant dying lies The beauty of it all
My darling won't you feel The sweet heaven in
Our endless cry Oh at least you could try For this one last time
So amazed how bright are the flames
We are burning in Ever smiled at the tragedies
We hold inside My darling won't you cherish
The fear of life that keeps You and me so alive
Oh at least you could try For this one last time
It could be alright For this one last time
Oh at least you could try (and we just will be closer)
For this one last time (let me fall into your arms)
It could be alright (don't let us grow colder)
For this one last time (let me close to your heart)
Oh at least you could try (and before it's over)
For this one last time (let me fall into your arms)
It could be alright (before it's all over)
For this one last time (let me close to your heart)

[Hailo]

:clap: That's :heart:

[theSNAIL]

all it brings is pain and heart ache. a waste of time if you ask me.

[Hailo]

love is beautyfuk

[Tzarina]

Love is nothing but a waste of emotional energy that drains us into more heartache and unhappiness. It's useless, for the most part. And it's an emotion that can not be completely controlled, you feel that way whether you want to or not... :crying:

:nuke:
:beat::chainsaw:

:hmmm: Unless you're a person who likes to use people, then it is an invaluable emtional tool. :rage:

The prey of the beast screamed
bloody murder
The line is so fine between
hoping and hurting
Former believers they beg for release
As love looking down on them
smiles and picks his teeth
Trapped in between heaven and hell
he knows all the secrets
and don't want to tell
There's nowhere to run and there's
nowhere to hide
Love knows you all too well
He will find you

Love is the ghost haunting your head
Love is the killer you thought
was your friend
Love is the creature who lives
in the dark
Sneaks up, will stick you
and painfully pick you apart

Love is a poet, love sings the songs
Pointing his finger you follow along
Voice are calling,
the monster wants out of you
paws you and claws you, you try not to fall

Love is the leech, sucking you up
Love is a vampire, drunk on your blood
Love is the beast that will
tear out your heart
Hungrily lick it and
painfully pick it apart

Love is a ghost, haunting your head
Love is the killer you thought
was your friend
Love is the teacher who lives in the dark
Sneak up and stick you
and painfully pick you apart

:ar15::heart::inlove:

[Godless]

bullshit, woman

love is tearing me apart right now, but I know it's not worthless. I need love even if it's not from a lover.

[theSNAIL]

see if its tearing you apart then why bother. no woman is worth all that crap.

[theSNAIL]

youre better off not getting mixed up all this crap to spare you the heart ache and stress in the end. what i saw Godless, just forget her. get rid of her before it gets worse and too hard then go with someone else, live free man live free!

[Godless]

we kinda/sorta broke up/took a break yesterday so I don't know what will happen. I just know I need to live my life and that has nothing to do with love

[theSNAIL]

forget her. believe me youll move on real quick. youll find another chick and forget all about her. same with her. shell see a new dude and forget you and it will all be a mere memory.

[theSNAIL]

If I were you bro id just tell her to leave and move one.

[theSNAIL]

better off without a chick who consumes your life. shes probably not even worth it.

[Godless]

that's not what I want to do. I've done that before with another person. I think it would be pretty fucked up to do that now. we've been together almost two years.

[theSNAIL]

hmm. why do you guys even need a break then? you know what. if you love her be with her. dont risk losing her bro. if its almost been 2 years then keep going ahead. hold her hand and tell her your there right by her side. maybe you two should still talk. i dont think you guys need a break from eachother, its up to you. if it were me id be gone and with someone else. but, hey maybe you two really do love eachother. im not good with the "love" thing, obviously,do what feels right. think of her too. like i said. you guys still need to talk from what i hear. just hope shes not one of those C-R-A-Z-Y chicks.

[Godless]

did it....did it....did that too.....

because something has to change. we're not gonna be able to go on like we are forever. I need to do things for my own life. it felt like I couldn't do anything for myself...so that's why

[theSNAIL]

i should start taking some of my own advice! damn i could be like a counselor or something.


next please......

[Tzarina]

Because relationships are the bull:shit:

Everything becomes about possession and jealousy for so many people...

People just do not get what love is or should be, so I may love someone in all the right ways, but it's never returned...
Real love is as elusive as a Coelacanth... :ghost: sad but true... :crying:

Please love let's make no impartial vow
Let all fall away
That's not crucial now
I want to brave love, one that makes me weak in the knees
I want a crazy, crazy love
One that makes me come undone at the seams

'Cause I'm tired of all these pilgrims, these puritans, these thieves
Of all these unbelievers
who whittle love down at the knees
Let these swift roads destroy themselves
Let the world fall into its sleep
For we shall be spared
We shall be left standing
To face what's left of concrete and honey

Kiss the flame
Let's run with the hunted, the untamed
Kiss the flame
Embrace the faceless, the unnamed
Kiss the flame

There are nightmares on the sidewalks
There are jokes on TV
There are people selling thoughtlessness
with such casualty

But wherefore art thou Romeo
where have all the brave men gone
Show me one man who know his own heart
To him I shall belong :nod:

Kiss the flame
Let's run with the hunted, the untamed
Kiss the flame
Embrace the faceless, the unnamed
Kiss the flame
Kiss the flame
Kiss the flame
Please love let's make no impartial vow


K, that's how I feel... :nono:

[theSNAIL]

and you think taking a break is that change....hmm sounds to me that you guys think its your relationship when its reall yourselves.

[Tzarina]

hmm. why do you guys even need a break then? you know what. if you love her be with her. dont risk losing her bro. if its almost been 2 years then keep going ahead. hold her hand and tell her your there right by her side. maybe you two should still talk. i dont think you guys need a break from eachother, its up to you. if it were me id be gone and with someone else. but, hey maybe you two really do love eachother. im not good with the "love" thing, obviously,do what feels right. think of her too. like i said. you guys still need to talk from what i hear. just hope shes not one of those C-R-A-Z-Y chicks.
:what: this wasn't all here when I made my post, you've been editing ahven't you? :hmmm:

:fish:

[theSNAIL]

why would someoone put themsleves through this crap? is it really worth it? is that person worth all this? is she/he worth it, or not?


intersting........

[theSNAIL]

yup

[Tzarina]

and you think taking a break is that change....hmm sounds to me that you guys think its your relationship when its reall yourselves.
:spunk: What else is a relationship but the people involved? Of course it's themselves, they are the ones in the bondage... :owndance:

[theSNAIL]

tru

im glad my girl only wants pleasure with no strings attached. those are the best relationships.

[Godless]

In your sad machines you'll forever staaaaaay

[theSNAIL]

true

[Tzarina]

why would someoone put themsleves through this crap? is it really worth it? is that person worth all this? is she/he worth it, or not?


intersting........
I think what kinda sucks is that we never know how things will pan out in the future... These affairs of the heart can seem so overwhelming, but often times when looking back you begin to see how things developed and worked out for the best, USUALLY... but it's hard because so often with these things I feel as though I just pulled up at some like 13 way stop and I can't figure out which direction to go, and then if I make a decision, it's always the wrong one...:shame:
:turtle:

[Tzarina]

tru

im glad my girl only wants pleasure with no strings attached. those are the best relationships.
:roflmao: You're young aren't you? Things NEVER stay this way... :haha:

Just how it is man, without the maturity to accompany especially, the "friends with benefits" NEVER works out for all involved... :no:

[theSNAIL]

bro. i know you need time to think and i understand that, but dont stay away too long. shell go crazy and you dont want to stress her or make her go into depression. women are fragile creatures. some are too fragile and delicate.

[KenKill75]

Im so full of love its not even funny :heart: :beat: :inlove: :heart: :beat:

[theSNAIL]

eh.....so far so good. once i get tied im out!

[EtchedInCold]

i :heart: Ken

[KenKill75]

i :heart: Ken


How you doin? :muah:

[jazz]

whenever you're having a problem with your love life, always remember that you could always resolve everything with a:

:spunk:

[Bruce]

whenever you're having a problem with your love life, always remember that you could always resolve everything with a:

:spunk:

That shit got me a night in county once.

[theSNAIL]

so tru

[Tzarina]

bro. i know you need time to think and i understand that, but dont stay away too long. shell go crazy and you dont want to stress her or make her go into depression. women are fragile creatures. some are too fragile and delicate.
I want so badly to argue this, but, as my current sig attests to, I can not... :blush: I break way too easily :shame:
:shrug:

:rasta:

eh.....so far so good. once i get tied im out!
:ha: then I'm correct... someone is not going to be happy at the end of this :blink:

[KenKill75]

Cant read that sig Lisha. The color does not fit well with the firmament background. :what:

[EtchedInCold]

:nod:

love is what you make it, if you allow it to hurt you it'll tear your heart out, if you allow it to make you happy, you'll be elated... but in the long run, it's all mind over matter...

[paygee]

wow...what a bitter thread..

[EtchedInCold]

i'm not bitter...

[Bruce]

I am. Terribly.

[paygee]

i'm not bitter...
i didnt point out any one person as being bitter, just said this thread was bitter.

[EtchedInCold]

i realize this, but apparently, recently, there has been talk in my life (behind my back) that i am bitter over past relationships and love as a whole... but i'm not, :dammit:

[paygee]

:nod:

love is what you make it, if you allow it to hurt you it'll tear your heart out, if you allow it to make you happy, you'll be elated... but in the long run, it's all mind over matter...
those dont sound like the words of a bitter person to me.

[EtchedInCold]

sarcasm?

[paygee]

sarcasm?
sarcasm? i dont get it..and i usually get sarcasm...which part were you being sarcastic about?


and if what i quoted about was you being sarcastic, then yea youre bitter..

[EtchedInCold]

no, i was asking if you were being sarcastic about me not sounding bitter. i meant what i said, but that in no way means i'm bitter (if it seems like i am)

[paygee]

no, i was asking if you were being sarcastic about me not sounding bitter. i meant what i said, but that in no way means i'm bitter (if it seems like i am)
no sorry for the confusion, i was just saying that didnt sound bitter to me, no sarcasm involved.

[EtchedInCold]

okay. *whew*

[Tzarina]

wow...what a bitter thread..
:nod: it IS!

Cant read that sig Lisha. The color does not fit well with the firmament background. :what:
I know... :peace:

[KenKill75]

I thought you loved me Lisha :crying:

[pappa roach]

"Love" is just something people created to sell literature, music, movies, etc., etc., etc.

Whores and antibiotics. That's all you need in life.

i sure can't argue with that..........lmao......good call, mang. :toker:

[Hailo]

no sorry for the confusion, i was just saying that didnt sound bitter to me, no sarcasm involved.


It actually sounds like you've loved, lost , and learned a little something along the way.

[paygee]

It actually sounds like you've loved, lost , and learned a little something along the way.
which in all honesty is how it should be in order to know what you want in life.

[Hailo]

which in all honesty is how it should be in order to know what you want in life.

True :nod:

[EtchedInCold]

True :nod:
i agree

[Tzarina]

I thought you loved me Lisha :crying:

:roflmao:

[theSNAIL]

eh. i guess the bitter ones are the people who have never experienced love, and those :lucky" enough too are in favor. dude as long as i dont experience it then i have nothing to lose. good luck with your lady friend Godless. go get some! im kidding that is probably kinda cruel. im sorry. but yeah good luck.

[bleuMadonna]

eh. i guess the bitter ones are the people who have never experienced love, and those :lucky" enough too are in favor. dude as long as i dont experience it then i have nothing to lose. good luck with your lady friend Godless. go get some! im kidding that is probably kinda cruel. im sorry. but yeah good luck.

I've been lucky enough to experience it, but boy, when you lose it, it's gut-wrenching. Some people never recover, others can move on and find it again. I just wonder if people are really meant to be monogamous forever. People grow and change at different rates, while some never grow at all. I don't know, I can see that what I want now is not the same thing I wanted when I was a little younger.

[theSNAIL]

i hear you

[Bruce]

... i guess the bitter ones are the people who have never experienced love...


To the contrary, I experienced it more deeply than I ever felt possible. The bitterness comes out of the loss. When someone invests everything that is themselves into another only to have it go to shit, some sort of defenses have to go up.

[theSNAIL]

To the contrary, I experienced it more deeply than I ever felt possible. The bitterness comes out of the loss. When someone invests everything that is themselves into another only to have it go to shit, some sort of defenses have to go up.:agree:

[lateraenimate]

Okay. Love. Ha. This should be fun.

This is coming from someone that is currently in love like they never have been. I thought I was in love a few times, but realized later that it was simply infatuation. Infatuation with the fact that I had someone that was all about me for whatever reason that may have been at the time.

Well... it took a lot for me to admit to myself that it was not infatuation this time, but actually love.

Now... for something like this and for something as complicated as the symptoms of love, how does one discern whether or not it's real? That's what I've wrestled with for a long, long time.

I have come to this conclusion. Envision yourself telling someone that you love them. Okay... got it? Good... Now... Envision them asking you "Why?"

Now, answer the question.

You may have answered a lot of things.


I love you because:

You treat me good.
You make me smile.
You make me happy.
You let me be myself.
I feel free around you.
I can tell you anything.
You don't judge me.
You're beautiful.
You're honest.
I get a fluttery feeling in my chest when I'm with you.
Etc., etc., etc. ...


Now, are those legitimate reasons or answers to the question "Why do you love me?"

Sure, they are; however, here's my point.

As far as I'm concerned, all those things can lead to love, but the way I know it's real or not is when I ask myself that question and my response to the question is:

"I don't know."

As soon as you can tell someone you love them, and not know why... that is when you know the love is true and unconditional. If they can answer the question the same way... you know you got it.

That's all.

[EtchedInCold]

Okay. Love. Ha. This should be fun.

This is coming from someone that is currently in love like they never have been. I thought I was in love a few times, but realized later that it was simply infatuation. Infatuation with the fact that I had someone that was all about me for whatever reason that may have been at the time.

Well... it took a lot for me to admit to myself that it was not infatuation this time, but actually love.

Now... for something like this and for something as complicated as the symptoms of love, how does one discern whether or not it's real? That's what I've wrestled with for a long, long time.

I have come to this conclusion. Envision yourself telling someone that you love them. Okay... got it? Good... Now... Envision them asking you "Why?"

Now, answer the question.

You may have answered a lot of things.


I love you because:

You treat me good.
You make me smile.
You make me happy.
You let me be myself.
I feel free around you.
I can tell you anything.
You don't judge me.
You're beautiful.
You're honest.
I get a fluttery feeling in my chest when I'm with you.
Etc., etc., etc. ...


Now, are those legitimate reasons or answers to the question "Why do you love me?"

Sure, they are; however, here's my point.

As far as I'm concerned, all those things can lead to love, but the way I know it's real or not is when I ask myself that question and my response to the question is:

"I don't know."

As soon as you can tell someone you love them, and not know why... that is when you know the love is true and unconditional. If they can answer the question the same way... you know you got it.

That's all.
very true. nicely said.

[Nostawen]

OMG, Lat!!. Your comments about love are quite intelligent. I´ve never noticed the point you´re writing about, and it´s extremely accurate.

[EtchedInCold]

Way to go Nat, 1000 posts!

i learned that in Health class..., but i had forgotten it. but its' very true.

[lateraenimate]

OMG, Lat!!. Your comments about love are quite intelligent. I´ve never noticed the point you´re writing about, and it´s extremely accurate.

It's a subject that I've fought with for years and do not take lightly. Love is something that is thrown around all too often without any thoughts of consequence. It's not something that I like to take lightly. I don't know if what I said is the absolute truth, but it works for my needs, and it helps for myself... I figured maybe someone else could benefit a little from it, as well.

[JTMoney]

lets see every girl that i like has a b/f which is really really gay so i'm pissed off about that crap

[paygee]

lets see every girl that i like has a b/f which is really really gay so i'm pissed off about that crap
then stop hooking up with girls who already have boyfriends, unless you do it subconsciously..in that case i would say youre affraid of commitment and find only girls who are unavailable

[JTMoney]

hmmm....

[EtchedInCold]

or just go the RMas route, and steal them from their boyfriends.
but paygee's got a point.

[JTMoney]

i say stell from there b/f is a great idea

[lateraenimate]

<sarcasm>

That'll definitely show that you're concerned about their personal well-being, and they will be more than happy to give you everything that they are... They'll be more open to you, and will trust you more than they do their current boyfriend.

I see stealing them from their boyfriend as a good thing...

</sarcasm>

[JTMoney]

hmmm....

[EtchedInCold]

well, just to play devils advocate, you never know how many are in suffering relationships. the girl i stole was in a terrible relationship and i took her from it to something much better.

[lateraenimate]

My point exactly.

[JTMoney]

ok then

[lateraenimate]

Learn and live well, my friend...

Go find yourself someone that likes you for you and doesn't have to choose between the pimp daddy that JTMoney is and her current boyfriend...

[JTMoney]

alright then i will think about that

[theSNAIL]

I think im in love again.........im in love with SEX dude......im a sexoholic!!!

they should make an AA for sexaholics

"hello my name is drew and im a sexoholic"
"hello drew"

:hump2: :69:

[bdf]

Dude......too much whackin will make you go blind....

[jims]

get down make love, then leave her :love:

[lateraenimate]

I think im in love again.........im in love with SEX dude......im a sexoholic!!!

they should make an AA for sexaholics

"hello my name is drew and im a sexoholic"
"hello drew"

:hump2: :69:

They do have groups for sex addicts... search online... sex addicts anonymous.

[bdf]

They do have groups for sex addicts... search online... sex addicts anonymous.

:google:

[Bruce]

"Love" is just something people created to sell literature, music, movies, etc., etc., etc.

Whores and antibiotics. That's all you need in life.

This was an awesome thread. No wonder it is being slurped.

[KenKill75]

You should slurp on my cock.

[Bruce]

:uhhh:


You told me to get off your cock the other day. You're worst than a woman.

[KenKill75]

:mkd:

[james]

This forum actually has it all.

[Bruce]

srsly.

Daniel should charge.

[KenKill75]

Daniel loves us.

[jazz]

:lalala:

[JDMCivicHatch96]

well, just to play devils advocate, you never know how many are in suffering relationships. the girl i stole was in a terrible relationship and i took her from it to something much better.

i did that too... but the problem with that was she was (oddly) USED to the terrible relationship. So much so, that she gave him a second chance. When we had our falling out, she didnt give us a second chance, go figure.

Love? Been there, done that, got the shirt.... literally, got the shirt lol

[KenKill75]

I jizzed on the shirt.

[Bruce]

Let me wash that for you. :yummy:

[KenKill75]

Wow

[JDMCivicHatch96]

I jizzed on the shirt.

so did i, but it was caused from another female :laugh:

[jazz]

Let me wash that for you. :yummy:
:cringe:

[Keith Moon]

- I Ovaltine you.

[KenKill75]

I Ovaltined your mom last night.

[Keith Moon]

- At least you let her live.

[KenKill75]

Of course I did, don't be ridiculous

/Balki

[sneakypete]

page 5 is da best page.

[Bruce]

Let me just reiterate:

Whores and antibiotics. That's all you need in life.

OMG, Lat!!. Your comments about love are quite intelligent. I´ve never noticed the point you´re writing about, and it´s extremely accurate.

And, Nati. What does he know? He's dead.

:roflmao:

[sneakypete]

dead?

[Ryan]

http://www.encircling.us/forums/showthread.php?t=6679&page=2

[B]

wait, that fool didn't die? There were donations an' shit too, IIRC?

[Bruce]

I donated some DNA to his sister. :hump3:

[sneakypete]

:fatnana:

[Ryan]

http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d38/Moniques3Monsters/more%20funnies%2010/ronery1.jpg

[Ryan]

srsly.

Daniel should charge.

Now look what you've done.

[Bruce]

Do not want. :pout:


:sarcasm3:

[Ryan]

http://i115.photobucket.com/albums/n291/naggler85/frohat.jpg

[B]

well, I've gotta take a little time, a little time to think things over. I better read between the lines in case I need it when I'm older, and now this mountain I must climb. It feels like the world upon my shoulders. Through the clouds I see love shine. It keeps me warm as life grows colder. In my life there's been heartache and pain. I don't know if I can face it again, I can't stop now, I've travelled so far to change this lonely life. I want to know what love is, I want you to show me. I want to feel what love is, I know you can show me. :owndance:
lol

[Ryan]

"Love" is just something people created to sell literature, music, movies, etc., etc., etc.

Whores and antibiotics. That's all you need in life.


lol

[Bruce]

:byrche:

[Ryan]

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[Bruce]

Words to live by.

[Ryan]

words of wisdom, lloyd :ryan:

[greg]

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[Ryan]

thats a win