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Mufumonk
March 23rd, 2005, 09:32 AM
'I Decided to Fight Back' (http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7245230/site/newsweek/)

In Pakistan: A gang rape, a fateful choice and still more battles ahead.

Asim Tanveer / Reuters
Still fighting: Mai has become a model for Pakistani women pressing for more rights
By Ron Moreau and Zahid Hussain

NewsweekMarch 28 issue - Soon after Mukhtar Mai was savagely gang-raped on the orders of a village council three years ago, she considered her options. She had never been accused of any crime. (The rape was carried out as supposed retribution for an alleged and implausible affair between Mai's teenage brother and a 30-year-old woman.) But according to rural Pakistan's strict Islamic code, she was forever "dishonored." The local Mastoi clan, which dominates the village council, expected her to keep her mouth shut or simply disappear. Her own Gujar clan refused to support her. "My choice was either to commit suicide or to fight back," Mai recalled last week. "I decided to fight back."


She's still fighting. Although an antiterrorist court convicted and sentenced to death six of the 14 men initially charged with the rape in 2002, an appeals court overturned the sentences last month. Within days of that ruling, the Federal Sharia Court, which has unclear jurisdiction, nullified both verdicts. Then the Supreme Court announced plans to retry the case, and last week released four of the attackers on bail—before the government ordered them re-arrested. "I'm afraid I'm returning to the same sense of insecurity I felt three years ago," said Mai, 32, when she first heard the men were out of jail. "I can't forget what happened; it keeps haunting me."


Until the legal setbacks, Mai's unlikely struggle for justice—her attempts both to force changes in her society and to improve her own situation—was succeeding. Using government compensation and contributions from supporters, Mai built the first school for girls in her village, as well as a school for boys. She plans to use a $33,000 grant from the Canadian government to add a library and a playground, and to set up a cattle-breeding project for poor village women. On land Mai recently inherited, she envisions building a children's hospital.

Mai also has become a model for Pakistani women pressing for more rights. She's been a guest speaker at women's forums across the country, and has even taken her message to Spain and India. By broadcasting her case, she has embarrassed authorities. The Pakistani government, aiming to show its support, has paved the dirt road leading into Mai's village and is now connecting local homes to the electricity grid. "The U.S. civil-rights campaign had Rosa Parks, who helped to spark an entire movement," says Sherry Rehman, a Pakistani activist and opposition member of Parliament. "We have Mukhtar Mai."

When the four convicted rapists briefly returned to Mai's village last week, members of the Mastoi clan celebrated. But the village is a changed place. In an unprecedented display of independence, several dozen local women filed into Mai's dusty compound as nervous and perplexed local men looked on from the road. The women sat on rope beds next to Mai's cow, goat and two buffaloes. They talked about women's rights. "I've tried to do something positive to bring about change," says Mai. "That gives me satisfaction." She'll have to wait longer for the satisfaction of justice.

Tzarina
March 23rd, 2005, 10:33 AM
:frown: Poor woman. I am glad she is pushing for change, but when so many have had warped religious views pummelled into them from birth, I do not think any real change or independence is able to truly take hold.

Everytime I hear of things like this, I am so glad someone in our past had the nerve to say that religion does not belong in government.

You have been to some of these places. From afar, the men really seem to fear women, and any female strength, so why would they want their religious doctrines to change or evolve?... is this accurate, or is it much different in reality?

Mufumonk
March 23rd, 2005, 10:55 AM
:frown: Poor woman. I am glad she is pushing for change, but when so many have had warped religious views pummelled into them from birth, I do not think any real change or independence is able to truly take hold.

Everytime I hear of things like this, I am so glad someone in our past had the nerve to say that religion does not belong in government.

You have been to some of these places. From afar, the men really seem to fear women, and any female strength, so why would they want their religious doctrines to change or evolve?... is this accurate, or is it much different in reality?


It depends on where you are. The bigger cities aren't quite as bad, but they still treat women like garbage as a whole. It gets really bad in rural areas such as this one where they are still practicing feudalism and tribalism. The fact that this woman is even alive is impressive though. In alot of instances like this, she would have been killed in "honor". When women are raped they are murdered by their own families for dishonoring the family unless the rapist agrees to take her as his wife.

"Once desecrated, she has become a burden to her family (bringing shame as well as extra financial expenses for losing her ability to marry and leave the family, which now has to continue supporting her). She is to be killed, unless the assailant marries her.
It is, according to Islamic Shariah, his duty. So either the man who raped her marries her or she is killed.
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Tzarina
March 23rd, 2005, 12:57 PM
^ I have heard about this, and yea, my first thought was that I can not even believe she is alive.
This is tough, anyone in the world should be able to worship whatever they choose, but with these governments and the clear human rights violations, how can a reasonable person not want intervention?

mud_
March 24th, 2005, 02:23 AM
I just finished reading a book about "honor" crime in the west bank
called "Burned Alive" by Souad

here:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0446533467/qid=1111648798/sr=8-1/ref=pd_csp_1/002-1895566-8707210?v=glance&s=books&n=507846


When she was 18, her brother-in-law poured gasoline on her and set her aflame. She was meant to die because she was pregnant and unmarried, bringing disgrace to her parents. But she survived, and now, 25 years later, "Souad" bears witness to the horror of "honor crimes" that kill thousands of women every year in many countries across the world. She begins with a bitter account of what it was like to grow up female in a remote Palestinian village in the Occupied Territory.

its not too bad, if only because it gives you one extra thing to think about

good on Mai ...
hope she survives

Tzarina
March 26th, 2005, 01:59 AM
Honestly, this :shit: pisses me off so tremendously, that I have no clue what to say... these stories always make my teeth clench... :bite:

Mufumonk
March 27th, 2005, 09:51 PM
Honestly, this :shit: pisses me off so tremendously, that I have no clue what to say... these stories always make my teeth clench... :bite:

You would have wanted to puke blood if you saw 60 Minutes tonight. They did a story on women's rights in Saudi Arabia.

Parabola7001
March 31st, 2005, 02:48 PM
You would have wanted to puke blood if you saw 60 Minutes tonight. They did a story on women's rights in Saudi Arabia.
i saw it, it sucked ass (the report was good but it sucked for the womans rights there